Quick variation: hitched to university sweetheart for 7 years and kept finding homosexual poem, dildos, etc.. Finally, we caught him emailing Craigslist M4M advertisements and then we separated to work things down. He gayed it for half a year while I was thinking we had been likely to remain close friends and loving coparents as soon as we fundamentally divorce. Once I stated I became willing to register he did a total 180, declaring he had been “straight by having an attraction to guys” and that it ended up being “not marriage ending.” we couldn’t inform anyone why I filed for divorce me abusively homophobic without him labeling. Our divorce proceedings had been contentious and just as terrible as discovering he had been a “bottom” who’s into “otters”. He’s now remarried to a lady and has now had another kid. Main point here is give attention to yourself along with your children. Attempt to accept you’ve always thought and plan accordingly that you don’t know your wife the way.