Wikipedia defines “cruising” as “walking or driving about a locality searching for a intercourse partner, often regarding the anonymous, casual, one-time variety. ”
This can be a reasonable definition, many dudes would determine cruising more loosely: a simple sex search, not at all something you particularly attempt to do but alternatively one thing you might be always doing. We do so in the subway plus in work and anywhere a handsome gentleman might raise their top to wipe sweat off their forehead. The rest of the way and tug on the brim of his trousers with our teeth in our minds, we lift his shirt.
Then voila if you make eye contact with him and discover (wordlessly and without complete certainty) that you are both interested! You’ve cruised. Now what you need to do is build up the courage to keep in touch with him, offer him your quantity, or nod to your exit. The after hookup may take place in your apartment, in a general general public restroom, or perhaps into the street out straight back. You are engaging in an art that gay and bi men have been perfecting for decades wherever you choose.
Take a look at these 24 classic cruising areas, several of which yielded greater results years ago and several which can be nevertheless utilized today. Happy hunting!
Above: Alex lurking in a park
A Term of Warning From Writer Alexander Cheves
I am Alexander Cheves, and I also have always been understood by buddies into the kink and fabric community as Beastly. I will be a sex-positive journalist and writer. The views in this slideshow usually do not mirror those associated with Advocate and they are based entirely back at my very own experiences. 继续阅读“24 Public Places Where Gay Guys Cruised. Before there clearly was Grindr.”